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We'll send you an with steps on how to reset your password. The whole goal of a Titus 2 woman is to train younger women in Biblical, simple-to-measure, Spirit-empowered, love-based living. Paul did not call for Titus as the pastor to train all the women in these qualities God wanted them to cultivate; rather he called upon the godly older women of Christ's church. He singles out the women of faiththose who had already learned to love their husbands, learned to love their children, and learned to be reverent, godly, modest and wise—and charged them with seeking out and meeting with every younger woman in the church.
The older women are to have mastered all the criteria and the younger women are trained in the last seven. First the godly character of the older woman in the faith is profiled. Without a reverent lifestyle behaving like a living sacrifice, dedicated to God—none of the rest even matter. That is why Paul starts here first!
Paul first draws a word from the Roman world to capture the entire bearing of these godly role model women in Christ's church. Older women are to live like holy priests serving in the presence of God. Their sacred personal devotion to the Lord has slowly come to influence every aspect of their lives.
Godly older woman have simply taken Romans ; 1 Corinthians ; and Galatians seriously. They have presented themselves to the Lord, they have begun to live life the way God asked them to live—as a walking temple of God, as a consecrated priest of God, as a living sacrifice, and as a bondservant of the Lord. Next Paul turns the spotlight on the hardest member of the body to control, according to James--the tongue.
Though this is a universal problem we all face, Paul specifically says to women who want to serve Christ's church—guard those tongues. James tells us that a tongue out of control, indicates a life out of control; and both can cause much destruction. James goes on to note that the source of all wickedness, especially of an uncontrolled tongue is hell; and it is Looking for a older women to teach me who is at the root of all gossip, all harmful talk, and all slander. If you are damaging the reputation and ministry of others you are a tool of the devil.
Satan is the ultimate source of all evil, the root of all wrong behavior; and since James says the tongue is capable of causing great evil, Satan is always close at hand. Godly Titus 2 women never are to surrender their tongues to the devil. They are prompted by the Holy Spirit to make sure that what they say is absolutely true, honest, just, pure, lovely, and of good report before they say it—lest they discredit their ministry effectiveness as a godly Titus 2 woman. This usually starts with proper motives and desires but gets off course with unwise sharing of sensitive information, then curiosity sets in and soon the conversation is far beyond the problem and the solution and has become malicious, slanderous, harmful gossip.
So what should we avoid? Never use our mouth in an unregenerated way! What should we do? Tame our tongue by the Holy Spirit as His Word richly dwells and permeates all our lives. Why not like David, make some plans now to change our usage of our tongues?
The third godly characteristic Paul focuses upon is the self-controlled, moderation that is to characterize women of every age in Christ's church. Godly women are Spirit-controlled in every part of their life. They resist excess in any area of daily life.
They are not slaves to any substance, slaves to any amusement, any fashion, or any attitude that does not please their Master in Heaven. Most women in the early church were formerly pagans. Drunkenness was the norm for many women in that society.
Because this life was all there is to a pagan, hopelessness led to drunkenness. Coming to Christ changed everything, but old habits are hard to break. The old ways of their husbands would come back, old pains from emotional and physical abuse would resurface, and the temptation to slip back to the intemperance of slavery to wine would grow strong. Lack of physical control of any appetite points to a spiritual immaturity.
Both Timothy and Titus were told to beware of women returning to their old habits in this realm of drinking. There are so many forms of alcohol never imagined in the Biblical times that can be abused, plus drugs both acceptable and unacceptable kinds that can be abused, tobacco that can be abused, wonderful varieties of food that can be abused, beautiful varieties of fashionable clothing that change with every season that can be abused, housing options, exercise options, recreation options—all that can be abused, and become addictions.
There is a generation of believers who have never tasted a drop of alcohol and pride themselves in that choice—while overeating with daily regularity; and both are condemned by God in Proverbs side-by-side. Because of Romans1 Corinthians we see that though the Bible never forbids wine drinking, our liberty is limited by the consciences of other believers and our testimony to the world.
The lesson of temperance is consistency. What ever we do is to be tempered by the glory of God. He must be the object and focus of all we do. Modern society has elevated fashion almost to the point of idolatry. Expensive, often ostentatious, jewelry for both men and women is becoming more and more prevalent as a means to flaunt material prosperity and glorify self.
They are not slaves to any substance, any amusement, any fashion, or any attitude that does not please their Master in Heaven. Godly women seek to be reverent in their behavior, careful in all their conversations, and never enslaved to anything but Christ. The fourth type Looking for a older women to teach me godly behavior in Titus 2 women is spiritual integrity--godly women live what they teach. They train others in the pattern they have learned.
Their walk speaks louder than their talk. They do not overindulge themselves, they are not overweight-gluttons, they are not pleasure-hungry, and they are not malicious-talkers. These godly older women were noble in everything and in the way they lived life they taught by their actions what is good! Titus Likewise, teach the older women to be reverent in the way they live, not to be slanderers or addicted to much wine, but to teach what is good.
Paul always stressed preaching and teaching what he was already living. In his instructions to Timothy he said:. Titus was to encourage these older women to develop a ministry of teaching younger women what is good. Younger women with children were to keep their primary focus at home see Titusbut the older women would do well to reach outside their homes and share what they had learned with those who would profit from it most.
Titus 2 women see every area of their lives as an open book that should and does teach Christ's gracious Lordship.
And who is an older woman? Technically in this passage it was a woman who was past raising her children, some commentators even say the age of sixty as Paul does in the widows list of 1 Timothy 5. But in reality there is no chronological age given. For every woman in this church there are some older and some younger.
To those older, you are to look and see if they are an example of Christ—if they are, ask them to show you what they have learned and how they do it. For those who are younger, you are to seek to get into their lives and help them bring every area of their lives under the gracious Lordship of Jesus Christ.
Every young lady and woman in this church should have as their highest desire the goal of being first a Titus 2 student of some godly older-in-the-faith woman. And, the highest honor, the greatest goal in the life of every older woman in this church is to have the honor of being that older-woman-in-the-faith. If you have children that is where you must start. If they are grown and gone—ask God to begin filling your lives with younger women into whom you can prayerfully pour the love and wisdom of Christ gleaned from His Word, and by your years of walking in the Spirit!
Every godly woman has the opportunity to teach the younger generation of women in the church. And this instruction is both by word and example. Many young women today were not raised under a biblical family model. Godly women seek to be reverent in their behavior, careful in all their conversations, never enslaved to anything but Christ, and teaching by example the way to follow Christ.
The context and the word imply that this was to be a process of teaching, explaining, encouraging, training, and holding the young wives to a standard that was unfamiliar to them and yet vital for the success of their marriages and families. One of the strongest forces for spiritual ministry in the local church lies with the older believers. Those who are retired have time for service.
It is vital that we mobilize and use these important people. In my own thirty years of pastoral ministry, I have been constantly helped and encouraged by godly, older saints who knew how to pray, how to teach God's Word, visit, troubleshoot, and help edify Christ's church. Older women are to train the younger women to learn the art of self-restraint.
This training process requires that you older women be committed to being responsible, confrontive, and affirming in an ongoing relationship with a younger woman. The first four spiritual qualities are all present to make this quality work. God wants a godly woman whose life speaks louder than her words. A woman whose character is noticed and prompts other women to examine their own lives and seek to emulate her joy, her peace, her walk in the Spirit in evident and practical ways.
Young women saved out of paganism needed to get accustomed to a whole new set of priorities and privileges; and those who had unsaved husbands would need special encouragement. The Titus 2 models had the responsibility of training the younger women how to be successful wives, mothers, and housekeepers; and the younger women had the responsibility of listening and obeying. Believing wives almost always want to obey the Lord, thus they submit and fulfill their responsibilities to their husbands—but often only dutifully and not lovingly. Wives were only seen as the trusted keepers of the home and bearers of the children.
Emotional love, psychological needs, and sexual desires were satisfied outside of marriage by most husbands. The Looking for a older women to teach me for illicit sex in the Roman world were endless. But the emotional super-glue that the marital relationship produces was thus absent. Just as modern pre-marital moral laxity has scarred many young couples into a troubled, often superficial marital relationship, so were most of the marriages of the New Testament church. What was to be the way to solve the distant, detached, and constantly tempted husband daily buffeted with the overpowering allurements of the flagrantly immoral Roman culture?
Christ led Paul to deploy a legion of older-in-the-faith, godly women to go from house to house, become a close and trusted friend of those young wives—and train them in how to become their husbands best, closest, dearest, and most-intimate friends. Paul knew that to protect those newly believing husbands and fathers from the tidal waves of temptation, they must have a vibrant, attractive, satisfying emotional and physical relationship with their wife. Husbands who are drawn to think about and wants to see their wife throughout a day away from home, are protected from attraction and distraction by a wicked world about them.
Loving, caring, romantic wives are trained not born. We are commanded to act in a loving way towards each other, our saved and unsaved friends, and even our enemies. This agape love is not a feeling, it is Looking for a older women to teach me action. Paul explains agape love in Ephesians and Colossians as a husbands acting towards his wife in the same self-sacrificial way as Jesus loves the church. Women were also commanded to obediently submit respectfully to their own husbands Ephesians ; Colossians Peter adds that they were to cultivate a gentle and quiet spirit that was beautiful to God and of immense value in the marriage 1 Peter This was the reciprocal relationship of a godly marriage on a behavioral level.
The commanded attitudes and behavior of believers in marriage is the foundation and the formula for a Christian marriage. But soon it gets back to dutiful, obedient, often unemotional, and detached relationships. So Paul says that it was imperative to go further. Titus is given the key to flourishing marriages and homes—train the younger women in how to cultivate a loving friendship phileo with their husbands.
This is emotional love. Genuine, Biblical, marital, sexual love is emotional intimacy in the highest degree. When the younger women saw how the older women loved, respected, admired, and were best friends with their husbands—they were drawn to see that close and intimate friendships with husbands were possible and very profitable for daily life.
They learned how to encourage their own husband, how to build him up, how to surprise him with their affections, and how to cultivate a life-long growing and deepening friendship. Since women can bear children well into their forties and the main duties of raising last for about twenty years, a woman under sixty could be considered young in the biblical sense 1 Timothy What qualities ought to characterize her life?
Some women say that their husbands are no longer lovable; but having that attitude is disobedience to the clear Word of God. Marriage is a contented commitment that goes beyond feelings to a devotedness—to a level of friendship that is deep and satisfying. It is a sin to disobey this command. The best way to fill a home with joy and peace is to have a husband and wife who are best friends--intimately, emotionally, and spiritually.
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